Attract Wealth And The Life Of Your Dreams

You can’t defeat an enemy you’re not aware of. Don’t trudge through life terrified of getting sick, losing all your money, or fearing criticism. These silent fears run deep in the subconscious mind. They are barely detectable but real.

Deep fears cripple you. You can’t reach your potential with invisible hand-cuffs slapped onto your wrists. As long as you’re a slave to deep-seated fears you won’t be free.

How to dig up these fears? A soul-searching Q and A can work wonders for you. Successful people take candid personal inventories periodically. Identify your fears in order to release them and attract wealth.

Ask yourself these questions.

Fear Of Criticism

1 - Do you live your life based on what others think?

2 - Do you constantly seek your parent’s approval?

3 - Do you try to fit in?

4 - Are you afraid to speak you mind around friends?

5 - Are you afraid to follow you passion because of what your family will say?

6 - Did you get married because you were told that it was normal?

7 - Did you have children because you were told that it was normal?

8 - Do you work a job that you hate because you were told that it was normal?

9 - Are you afraid to express your opinions?

Here’s something to keep in mind. People are criticizing you whether you’re aware of it or not. Words sting but know that for every person who confronts you there are probably 10 who don’t speak out. So be yourself. You attract the best friends and most interesting people by being yourself.

People who dole out negative criticism are ugly inside. There’s some part of them that isn’t happy so they feel the need to knock others down. It’s their karma; don’t go down with the ship by engaging them.

Fear Of Poverty

10 - Do you obsess over getting “Hot Deals”?

11 - Do you click coupons every day?

12 - Do you use the word ‘expensive’?

13 - Do you fear losing your job?

14 - Do you see yourself losing your house? Your apartment?

15 - Do you panic whenever your car needs repairs.

16 - Do you hate paying bills?

17 - Do you feel awkward when discussing the topic of money?

18 - Do you turn people’s generosity down?

19 - Do you shop only at discount stores?

20 - Are you great at stretching a dollar?

21 - Do you agonize over the stock market’s twists and turns?

The only place where poverty exists is the human mind. You might see the appearance of poverty in depressed areas. But it has nothing to do with outside conditions. It’s a mindset. Poverty exists because people think lack. You can’t attract wealth when focused on poverty.

Whether you like it or not, each person makes their own bed financially. From people with plenty of money to people with little money. Your subconscious mind is flooded with the idea of wealth or poverty. If you want to know what’s going on in your mind, look at your results.

Develop wealthy visions. If you generate rich ideas and act on them you become rich. The process is straightforward once you dedicate yourself to attracting wealth. There are a myriad of self-help books on wealth. The Science of Getting Rich and Think and Grow Rich are 2 favorites. You can find free versions of each book online.

Fear Of Disease

22 - Do you run to the doctor when you catch a cold?

23 - Do you count every calorie which you ingest?

24 - Do you take a cocktail of vitamins in the morning?

25 - Do you flip out if you miss a workout?

26 - Are you terrified of hospitals?

27 - Are you afraid of the doctor’s office?

28 - Do you feel the need to take a pill the minute you sniffle?

29 - Do you obsess over the latest and greatest medical studies?

Sickness and health are rooted in the mind. Ever notice how people who obsess over staying healthy consistently get sick? While those who never speak of illness stay healthy? Focus + Energy = Experience.

It‘s OK

We all suffer fear from time to time. Don’t beat yourself up for experiencing an emotion. Ask questions and demand honest answers.

Condition yourself to attract wealth.

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You’ve probably been there. You’re fired up with enthusiasm, ready to attain your goal. Then you find out that your parents, friends, and loved ones question what you’re doing. They may worry about your future. Perhaps you’ve encountered financial hardships. You think that you’ve conquered your own demons until you find out that others have created demons for you.

I could have titled this article “How To Develop Faith”. That’s too easy though. Believing in yourself when EVERYone close to you doubts you is another story. It’s like a kick to the gut. A balloon deflating. It can be emotionally taxing to be the only person on earth who believes in you, but you must cultivate this quality on your road to mental and spiritual riches.

I‘ve listed 3 actionable steps to take. If you you‘re feeling low on faith, if you‘re hurting, if it seems like the world is against you…..

Take A Break From Everyone

I‘m not talking about a 30 minute meditation session. I mean days or even weeks spent in solitude. Unhealthy, you might say? Many sages spent years in solitude. Your outer world changes when you‘ve mastered the art of going within. Going within takes practice. It takes discipline. It means holding a vision of your greater good - feeling that it’s yours - in the face of people who doubt you. This is a one on one activity between you and God. You’ll never know the True You until you’ve spent time in solitude. Sitting with your thoughts, your blockages, your own self-doubt. If others are getting to you, you still have work to do. Taking a break from everyone is the best way to build faith in yourself while everyone questions you.

You are inherently perfect. You are born perfect and stay perfect until doubters poison your mind during childhood. Take it easy on them; they didn’t know any better. Even though you’re not blaming them it’s not your responsibility to be around them. That’s your choice. Get away from it all. Spend an extended period of time by yourself. You’re not ducking problems, you’re addressing your own issues.

For how long should you take a break? It depends. It could be days or weeks. Most around you won’t understand. Trust me, I’ve been there. People will think that something’s wrong with you. That you’re depressed. That your hiding. The True You will know when it’s time to surface.

The goal is to be in your own mental world while interacting with others. It’s not be shield yourself or run away from issues permanently. It’s to find yourself so that you can do the most, and be the best, for others.

Focus On Your Vision Until It‘s White Hot

Your vision is your compass.

“The novice uses outside conditions as their motivator. The genius is driven by vision.” ~ Ryan Biddulph

Your vision lets you know when you’ve strayed. In order to follow it you must hold it at all times. OK, maybe not every second. But if times appear to be tough you better fall back on it, or you’re going to fall down more often than not.

How to hold your vision? Become emotionally involved with it. Practice visualization day and night. Set aside 30 minutes a day to sit quietly. See things the way you want them to be. Live in your mental picture - taste, touch, hear, smell, and see it. Whether it’s to attract wealth or a state of mind you must feel it as true before it manifests. Paint the picture in detail. The clearer the picture the more emotionally involved you’ll become with it. You’ll believe that it’s real. People and events will conform to your picture. Other’s doubt will turn into belief. At this point, you won’t even care what others think, say, or do in response to your actions. You’ll see your vision so crystal clear that you’ll laugh off the non-belief of others.

Lose The Doubters

A caveat: give people a chance. It’s not your responsibility to consistently be around people who doubt you. It’s also not fair to shut out people who you love, just because they don’t share your fire, your intensity, your deep faith in yourself and your purpose.

My rule of thumb is to figure out how these people fit into your purpose. If they don’t, minimize your time with them. Cut back on the visits. Remember that you can still love someone deeply while disagreeing with them. It’s nothing personal. The majority of your time should be spent in goal-achieving activities. If you’re around someone who tends to blur your vision your actions will not be goal-oriented. You can’t move toward a goal with a divided mind. Pessimists are thought-poisoners and they’ll cloud your vision every time.

Move Forward

Move forward in life. Keep a close, tight-knit network of friends who support you. Move with them toward your goals.

Doubt is poison. Doubt is best friends with worry and fear. Fall back on your vision. Do what what God meant for you to do. Let go pessimistic states of mind, people, and situations to make room for the new You.

Condition yourself to attract wealth.

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